Thursday, September 9, 2010

What you see is what you get?


This is what has been on my mind lately;
 A lot of men today do not know how to relate to women. Part of the solution for this lies in the hands of  us Ladies.
How will this happen? Well, many women are aware that they have the power to seduce a man, but are not aware that their femininity also has the power to educate a guy. The way we dresses has ability to help shape a man into a gentleman or into a beast.
When a woman dresses modestly, I can take her seriously as a woman because she doesn't look like she's begging for attention. She knows that she’s worth discovering. Such humility is radiant. Unfortunately, many women are so preoccupied with turning men’s heads that they overlook their power to turn our hearts.
Sometimes femininity is confused with weakness. A woman who is truly feminine is well aware that she could dress like a collection of body parts and receive countless stares from guys. But she has the strength to leave room for mystery. Instead of dressing in a way that invites guys to lust, the way she dresses says, “I’m worth discovering.” She trusts God’s timing, and she knows that she does not need to make boys gawk in order to catch the attention of the man God has planned for her. We have the power ladies, lets embrace it......

Lots of love,

Ms B

Sunday, September 5, 2010

We are live at last!

Welcome real ladies of this world. This has taken a lot but I am glad it has taken off. For some time I have been thinking of a way in which I could create a platform where I could share my thoughts and discuss with all the ladies out there on topical issues which affect our lives in one way or another, hence the establishment of this blog. I am a woman who believes in the balance of a modern professional woman who however is grounded in the principles of family hood and christianity. This blog will appeal to women across the board as it will cover a wide spectrum of topics affecting women. This platform will discuss a wide array of subjects which however have a bearing on the modern women of the 20th century, who on one hand has to work and provide for the family but also has to be there or her spouse, raise a family and still be available for other social roles expected of her in this modern world. The blog equally appeals to the young woman about to start a career or establish her feet in business, probably still looking forward to start a family. The blog will identify and discuss the role the modern woman should play in making this earth a better place. Topics to look forward to include Women wellness, raising a family, being a mother and wife,fashion trends, Women and Christian, balancing families and careers to name but a few. I intend to set the stage for discussion in these and other topics which shall be covered in future and from that, we will share and interact on our experiences through comments posted on the blog. That way, we will become enriched through the knowledge gained sharing our experiences. As often said, knowledge is power. Once again, thanks for visiting this blog and I hope youwill help it grow into a ‘virtual wellspring’ of the modern woman. It feels good to find a place where we can say what is on our minds without anyone judging us. Your input means a lot to me.
Spread the love and kindness!
Ms B